Menopause incontinence

 

Losing control of your bladder can take you by surprise and leave you feeling vulnerable. Menopause incontinence can include leaking urine when coughing, laughing or sneezing or not being able to make it to the bathroom in time. You might also feel the need to go more frequently, day or night, or find it difficult to fully empty your bladder. You may feel embarrassed or ashamed but leaking pee is common and you do not have to put up with it.

Urinary incontinence definition

Urinary incontinence (UI) is the medical name for loss of bladder control or involuntary urine leakage. It means that you pee unintentionally – how and when this happens depends on what type of urinary incontinence you have.

Stress incontinence. Pee leaks when your bladder is under pressure, such as when you cough, laugh, exercise, or lift something heavy. You might experience a small leak or complete loss of control.

Urge/urgency incontinence. Also known as an overactive bladder, this is when pee leaks when you feel a sudden, often intense urge to pee. You may also feel a constant urge to pee, even when your bladder is empty.

Even if you don’t actually leak, and just feel the constant need to pee, an overactive bladder can be uncomfortable and disruptive to your life. Nighttime leakage, and being woken up by your bladder are also common symptoms.  

Overflow incontinence. It may seem a bit unexpected, but difficulty emptying your bladder completely can also lead to stress incontinence and an overactive bladder. This is called overflow incontinence.

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How likely is menopause incontinence?

  • It affects 30 – 40% during perimenopause, rising to 50% postmenopause
  • Those who have been pregnant, particularly those that have had vaginal deliveries, are more likely to suffer from this than those who have not
  • Your weight, alcohol, nicotine, and caffeine consumption, and being on certain medications can also increase the risk of urinary incontinence
  • Having a urinary tract infection can also cause temporary urinary incontinence

Read more about the stages of menopause.

SIGNS OF URINARY INCONTINENCE

Sudden or constant urge to empty your bladder with little or no warning signals

Leaking or loss of control when you cough, laugh, sneeze, or lift something heavy or during sex

Leaking before you get to the bathroom when you get the urge to pee

How to cope with incontinence in menopause

You may experience other menopause symptoms alongside incontinence, including vaginal prolapse or anxiety. Here are some short-term fixes:

1 Know where the bathroom is. If you are going out, make sure you know in advance where the nearest toilets are. Always make sure you have some change for the bathroom handy. Consider carrying a change of underwear with you in a resealable plastic bag, to store the wet one.

2  Research incontinence pads. You can buy from a supermarket super absorbent pads and underwear to manage leaks or to help you when exercising. This kind of underwear has improved hugely in terms of style and function – you can find plenty of companies online that make attractive absorbent underwear.

3. Protect your bed. Online you can buy mattress protectors and washable or disposable absorbent sheets. There are also hand-held urinals and bedside commodes available. You can also speak to your healthcare provider about devices that can be placed into the vagina or urethra to prevent urine leakage.

These fixes aren’t sustainable long-term and we recommend talking to your healthcare provider.

Treatment for bladder weakness in menopause

Strengthen your pelvic floor

Doing daily pelvic floor exercises can help improve menopause bladder leakage. 

Train your bladder

Plan your trips to the bathroom during the day to gradually increase the amount your bladder can hold.

Adjust your lifestyle

Limit caffeine and alcohol as they are diuretics, making you pee more. Drink the recommended amount of water and not too much.

Losing weight reduces the pressure on your bladder and pelvic floor region. 

Talk to your healthcare provider about medication

Some suffer so much from urgency, going to the toilet many times, and are uncomfortable with the feeling of always needing to pee. Thankfully some medications can help and provide some relief while doing pelvic floor strengthening. 

Surgical procedures for urge incontinence

Your healthcare provider may refer you to a urogynecologist to discuss possible surgical options.

Botulinum Toxin A injections

Botox is injected into the walls (muscle) of your bladder, and acts to partially paralyze the muscle so it is less overactive. The effects can last several months and you can have repeat injections if needed

Sacral nerve stimulation / posterior tibial nerve stimulation

The bladder muscle is controlled by passing an electrical current through the nerves that control the bladder

If you still suffer terribly from urge incontinence and the above treatments have not worked, there are some other procedures available. 


Surgical procedures for stress incontinence

For stress incontinence, the main treatment is activating and strengthening your pelvic floor. Typically you would do this with a pelvic floor physical therapist. If you are still suffering, you may be referred to a urogynecologist to discuss surgical procedures which may help.

Sling surgery

A sling is placed around the neck of your bladder to support it. This outpatient procedure has a high success rate in women with moderate to severe incontinence. 

Urethral bulking agents

This is injected into your urethra’s walls to allow the urethra to close with more force.

Incontinence and menopause FAQs

As you age, you lose strength in your muscles, and in addition, decreasing estrogen worsens this. Also, many do not do pelvic floor exercises to maintain strength.

A weakened pelvic floor and irritated bladder can lead to urinary incontinence. Also, injuries to the muscles and connective tissue during pregnancy and childbirth begin to overwhelm your body’s ability to support your bladder.  

If left unchecked, urinary incontinence can increase your risks of feeling low, decrease your self-esteem, and interfere with sex and intimate relationships.

Urinary incontinence tends to come and go and improve with a pelvic floor muscle strengthening program. If leakage or overactive bladder problems are having a significant impact on your quality of life, it’s a good idea to have a chat with your PCP or a practitioner who is knowledgeable about urinary incontinence to see what types of medical and surgical treatment could be available to you.

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Menopause care to help you feel better

  • Learn your menopause stage
  • Virtual visits with board-certified clinicians experienced in women’s health
  • Prescriptions for FDA-regulated hormone therapy
  • Holistic lifestyle guidance with the Stella app